March 2008
Vol. 10 No. 3

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Table of Contents for March 2008 [Vol. 10 No. 3]

     


LET US LOVE ONE ANOTHER

A young woman at the checkout gave me my change with the words, "There you are, dear!" Should I be offended by her familiarity or should I welcome the warmth of her word? (I was wearing a dog collar at the time; does that make a difference?)

I am reading a lovely little book called Breakfast Epiphanies by David Anderson, an Episcopal Rector with whom I identify, and who like me has two daughters. He tells about his mother visiting someone critically ill in hospital. Often one is tempted to give advice or "play doctor" suggesting pills to take. None of that seemed appropriate in this case, so she was at a loss for words. In the meantime another visitor came. She watched from the door to see what happened. The other visitor knelt down beside the patient and said to her quite simply, "I love you." She confessed, "Now why didn't I think of that."

How would it be if instead of giving each other free advice, which is usually worth about as much as it costs, we told each other that we loved one another? It would make us vulnerable which would probably be a good thing. But in the current climate would we be considered guilty of sexual harassment?

The one commandment that Jesus came down from heaven to give us was, "Love one another." In his 1st epistle John writes, "…Those who do not love a brother or a sister whom they have seen, cannot [claim to] love God whom they have not seen" (4:20).

It's important to remember this as we approach Holy Week and Easter. For this is the season more than any other in which the love of God is made manifest. Jesus told us "God so loved the world…" (John 3:16). "We love because he first loved us" (1 John 4:19). And this, from the farewell discourses of Jesus (John 15:13); "Greater love has no one than this than one lay down one's life for one's friends." This is precisely what Jesus did on Good Friday.

There are many complex meanings of the various doctrines of atonement. But at the heart of all of them is the simple truth, which the church has always believed, that God sent his son into the world, to be born, to die and to rise again because he loves us.

How would it be if we stop giving each other helpful advice, telling one another what to eat or what to drink or what to wear or what pills to take or how to feel? Instead let us try to express affection to one another. After all, Tertullian, one of the early church apologists for the Christian faith, quoted pagans as saying, "See how [the Christians] love one another. And see how they are ready to die for each other."

May the holy season convince you that you are loved by God beyond your greatest imagining.

Hugh Stevenson

 

TURNING POINTS

All find a welcome:
The "children" of Dolores DeVito, Joanna Morat, Tina Daily and Christine Dohrmann were here on Feb 17.
Wendy Adams is back from Egypt, though Roy is still there.
Larry Bogel was here to celebrate her mother's, Bea Bogel's, birthday.

For this, much thanks:
Anne & Charlie Chapman hosted the vestry supper on Feb 8.
Mary Banks facilitated the vestry workshop on Feb 9.
Karen Steelman led the midday service and told the story of Absalom Jones on Feb 13.
Sincere thanks to each and every one of you that bring something for FISH each week. Your contributions are received so gratefully!! Think SOUP, TUNA, PASTA, CANNED GOODS.

We will exalt you, O God, our King:
Two major birthdays
John Brigham turned 90 on Feb 17.
Bea Moore turned 100 on Feb 23.
John Gnam & Jackie Senter became grandparents when Alicia & Brian Gnam gave birth to Olivia on Feb 13.
Mike Bennett returned safely from Afghanistan.

May they know God's healing power:
Lolita Seguin Linda Belding
Hertha Brown James Landon
Eleanor Anderson Dolores De Vito
Gordon Gary Shirley Pippin
Will Horne Kelly Pennington
Loren Brown was in Sutter Hospital
Rosemary Chapman, sis-in-law of Charlie
LA King's mother, Ginger
Jacqueline, mother of Alicia Wray
Janet Robbins, cousin of Jill Hunting
Nancy Lathrop, mother of Kathy Littman
Maureen Thompson, wife of John
John Phillips, son in law of Barbara Jones
Matt Harris, son of Ninon Cabrales

We ask God's protection of:
those serving in the military overseas
Dan Whitwright Sam Jackson
Jill Hunting is writing her book in DC.

Blessings on:
Gabriel Lange Schlumberger, son of Sande, who married Samantha Brighton Schweitzer in Easthampton NY.
John Leech, who was installed as Rector of St Alban's in St Edmonds, WA.
Dicksie Tamanaha is a candidate at the Co-Ed Cursillo, Feb 20-23.

May they rest in peace:
Ginny Fallon, who was a member of St Patrick's from 1980, died in Park View Nursing Home on Jan 26.
Ida Muller came to St Patrick's the same year (1980). Ida died on Feb 10. She was 96. There will be a Memorial service for Ida after Easter.

Deepest sympathy:
John Thompson, whose brother Bill died on Jan 23

 

AROUND ST. PATRICK'S

ST. PATRICK'S CELEBRATION
Saturday, March 15 is the day the leprechauns will invade St. Patrick's! To honor our patron saint, we will have Evensong with an Irish flavor at 5:00 p.m. A potluck supper will follow at 6:00 p.m. Tommie Apostolides, Heather Nicholl and friends will be decorating during the day. Would you like to help decorate?

There is, of course, no charge for the supper! But there will be a "White Elephant" fundraiser. Please bring an item to be raffled off.

Everyone should get a phone invitation. If no one calls you, please call the office (833-4228). See you there!

March 2: Lent 4, the middle Sunday of Lent, is called Laetare Sunday (Mothering Sunday in U.K.). Traditionally this Sunday was a break from the Lenten discipline.

Healing Sunday. We will offer the Laying on of Hands and anointing with oil for healing for any who wish. You may seek healing for physical ailments or for emotional or mental pain or for another reason. Please come forward after the Prayers of the People.

March 9: Sunday of the Passion. We make palm crosses in preparation for Palm Sunday next week. Please come and help.

Daylight savings time begins. We lose an hour of sleep. The clocks "spring" forward.

March 16. Palm Sunday: Blessing of palms at the 8 a.m. and 9 a.m. services. At 10:30, the procession of palms begins outside the main doors of the church by the St. Patrick's Cross (weather permitting). The reading of the Passion story according to Matthew.

March 18. Holy Tuesday at 6:00 p.m. potluck supper. Please sign up in the Parish Hall. A DVD of the St John Passion (sung in a staged version by the English National Opera) follows at 7:00 p.m. More information is provided on Page 6. Holy Wednesday: March 19, at 9:00 a.m., Midweek Eucharist and Healing.

Maundy Thursday: March 20. Eucharist at 7:00 p.m. only. The service is followed by the stripping of the altar, followed by a vigil. Stay as long as you can. Theme: "The Paschal Lamb."

Good Friday: March 21. Good Friday Liturgy (Prayer Book, p. 276) at noon. The church will be open for private prayer from 9:00 a.m. onwards. The offering goes to the Anglican Diocese of Jerusalem & Middle-East. Theme: "Rest Calm." The church is barren with no adornments and there is no communion on this day.

Holy Saturday: March 22, the Altar Guild will decorate the church at 9:00 a.m. Would you like to help them?

Easter Day: March 23 8:00 a.m. Lighting of the Paschal candle and the Easter vigil. We conclude with the singing of "Jesus Christ is Risen Today."

8:45 a.m. The Flowering Cross. Before the beginning of the 9:00 a.m. Family Eucharist. Please bring flowers for the children to decorate the flowering cross.

9:00 a.m. Family Eucharist with the Baptism of Maile Chapman. The choir will sing.

10:00 a.m. Easter egg hunt

10:30 a.m. (Note Time). Festal Eucharist including Holy Baptism. The choir will sing. Do you know of more children or adults to be baptized?

Easter Parking - overflow parking on the "front 40." Please do not block the entrance leading from the church driveway. There is also additional parking at the rear of the church.

Easter Flowers. Will you give Easter decorations in memory of or in thanksgiving for a loved one? Please sign the Flower Book in the Church entrance by Palm Sunday (March 16).

BOOK OF GOSPELS
In the summer, we will begin using the Revised Common Lectionary at our worship. Though the gospel readings are close to what we have been reading in the past from the old lectionary, they are different enough to warrant a new Book of Gospels. I have ordered one at a cost of $70. This might be something that you might like to give to St Patrick's as a memorial for a loved one. If so, please contact the church office.

WANTED ~ VACUUM
If you have a Vacuum Cleaner in good condition that you no longer use, could you donate it? The church is in need of one as a back up, in case our existing one breaks down. Thank you.
Xavier Cabrales, St. Pat's Facilities Administrator

WANTED ~ COFFEE MAKERS
Sign up sheets for people to make coffee and provide cookies (keep it simple!) for the 10:30 a.m. coffee hour, January to June, are on the table in the parish hall. Now is your chance to get on board early and pick your favorite date.
Norma Creaghe

ROBERT YOUNG & FRIENDS
As part of the music series, Robert Young and friends will play piano quartets on April 20, at 3:00 p.m. The quartet includes Robert's wife, Jeannette Isenberg (violin), and Linda Ghidossi-de Luca (viola). Their program will include Colleen, by Sir Granville Bantock. Free entry but recommended donation $10.

EASTER LAMB OR EASTER BUNNY?
At Easter many children are given cuddly bunnies or chocolate rabbits in their Easter baskets. Have you ever wondered about the religious significance of the bunny or rabbit? I looked up "bunny" and "rabbit" in a Bible Concordance. I found no references. Then I looked up "Lamb" There are thirty-two Biblical references. In the Old Testament the lamb is sacrificed and its blood is painted on the doorframe of the house so the angel of death will "pass over" that house (Exodus 12:21-23). In our Eucharist we say " Christ our Passover is sacrificed for us". In John 1:29 John the Baptist says "Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world" when he sees Jesus approaching. In the book of Revelation the word "Lamb" is used many times as a symbol of Jesus Christ. "The Lamb is the light of the city of God." A visual symbol of the resurrection is the "Lamb Triumphant" - a standing lamb holding a banner or pennant with a red cross.

So you see the Lamb is a wonderful symbol for Easter and Jesus. This year try to find a stuffed lamb toy for your child or grandchild. And a chocolate lamb for the grownups!

A chicken is ok too (see Matthew 23-37 or Luke13:34). And eggs have always been a symbol of new life, which is what we celebrate at Easter.
Judy Buff

(The "Paschal Lamb" will be the theme of the Maundy Thursday homily, 7:00 p.m. March 20.)

JESUS SEMINAR
The Westar Institute Spring Meeting takes place at the Flamingo Hotel in Santa Rosa, March 5-8, 2008, The theme is "Religious Literacy: legacy for the future." For further details about costs and speakers, see the website: westarinstitute.org.

Schedule

Wed, Mar 5 Thurs, Mar 6
9-10:30 a.m. Marcus Borg 9 -10:30 a.m. Milton C. Moreland
11 am-12:30 p.m. Ann Graham Brock 11 am-12:30 p.m. Discussion Forum
2 to 3:30 p.m. Discussion Forum 2-3:30 p.m. John Shelby Spong
7:30-9 p.m. Karen Armstrong 5-7 p.m. Reception
Fri, Mar 7 Sat, Mar 8
9-10:30 a.m. Seminar: Christian Origins 9-10:30 a.m. Seminar: Christian Origins
11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Acts Seminar 11a.m.-12:30 p.m. Acts Seminar
2-3:30 p.m. Seminar: Christian Origins 2-3:30 p.m. Seminar: Christian Origins
4-5 p.m. Discussion Forum 4-5 p.m. Discussion Forum
7:30-9 p.m. Amy-Jill Levine 7-10 p.m. Banquet

 

DIOCESAN MEETINGS

VINE AND BRANCH SOCIETY
Celebration at St. Patrick's

The celebration of the Vine and Branch Society will be held at St. Patrick's on Saturday, May 10. There will be an afternoon reception with Bishop Beisner and a string quartet sponsored by a youth program of the Santa Rosa Symphony. The celebration will conclude at 4:00 p.m. with choral Evensong led by Cantiamo, directed by Carol Menke. Bishop Beisner is the officiant.

The Vine & Branch Society was created by The Episcopal Foundation of Northern California to recognize and thank all those whose estate plans include their local churches or the Diocese.

The Vine and Branch Society recognizes all types of future giving, such as making a gift in a will or trust, or naming the church as beneficiary of a life insurance policy or an Individual Retirement Account (IRA). The amount of the gift is not important and it can be either a certain gift or a contingent gift (a gift that the church receives only if primary beneficiaries have died). You do not need to "prove" that your estate plan includes the church. And you may remain anonymous if you wish.

All are invited to take part in Choral Evensong, whether members of the Vine and Branch Society or not. Mark your calendar. Make Pentecost and Mothers' Day weekend special this year!

Have you included a gift to the church in your estate plan? The Foundation would like to honor your commitment to provide resources for future ministries here in Northern California. But we need to know who you are! To learn more about planned giving, the Vine and Branch Society, or the May event please contact me or Rick Harrison Smith, Executive Director of The Foundation, at 1-800-442-6918 extension 16 or episcfndn@dncweb.org.

Karen Steelman (538-3970), President
Episcopal Foundation of Northern California

JUBILEE CELEBRATION
On Saturday, April 5, 2008, Episcopal Community Services will host a benefit at Grace Episcopal Church, 1314 Spring Street, St Helena 94574 to raise funds to help support the many ministries in the 20 churches that comprise the South West Deanery of our Diocese.

There will be a silent auction, raffle and a wine tasting; and we look to you for support in the form of a donation for our event. Any item, large or small, will make a difference.

If you can offer an item for the silent auction, pick up a donation form from our parish office by Thursday March 13, 2008. Arrangements can be made to pick up your generous donation.

CAMP NOEL PORTER
Noel Porter Camping season of weekly camps starts on June 15, and ends on August 9, with a special Labor Day Family Camp from August 29 to September 1.

Most camp sessions run for seven days, beginning on Sunday and ending on Saturday. The exceptions are the Beginner Camp session for ages 6-8 (June 29 to July 2) and the Alumni Camp session (July 3 to July 6).

To be a counselor, you need to be 15 ½. There are separate camps for juniors (going into Grades 4-6), Junior High (Grades 7-9) and Senior High School (Aug 3-9)

Counselor Training - $250.00
Regular Camp Sessions - $300.00
$25 early registration discount applies if registered before March 31, 2008.
$50 multiple-session registration discount per camper if enrolled in more than one session.
$50 bring-a-new-camper discount.
A number of basic scholarship discounts of $30 are available.

For more information see: www.campnoelporter.com/camping_2008.html

 

ST JOHN PASSION

On Tuesday in Holy Week, March 18, I am showing a DVD of a performance of the St John Passion. The Passion begins at 7:00 p.m. and lasts about 2 hours. It's sung in a new translation in English by Neil Jenkins.

When J.S. Bach was found theologically sound (!) and elected Cantor at Saint Thomas's, Leipzig in April 1723, he was not their first choice. They really wanted Telemann from Hamburg. One of the city councilors remarked with a sigh that they "must make do with mediocrity." The score was written in Leipzig and presented on the following Good Friday 1724. The more elaborate Saint Matthew Passion was written a few years later.

The libretto is based on the Passion story in St John's Gospel, using Martin Luther's German translation. The congregation would have been very familiar with the passion story. Bach added arias for didactic and religious purposes. These would have been new to the ears of the first listeners. They are devotional and tell the meaning of the story. Bach's chorales came from 16th and 17th century hymnals. Perhaps the whole congregation joined in singing these (as happened in this performance).

The work begins with the great chorus, which is repeated, "Lord and Master." This is a song of praise to God, unlike the opening chorus of the St Matthew Passion, which is penitential. The climax of the piece is when, Jesus on the cross sings, "All is accomplished," a descending scale echoed by the viola da gamba (outstanding in this performance, say the critics). Mendelssohn's Elijah echoes this when in the wilderness he sings, "It is enough." Here Jesus departs from his cross. The mezzo, moving towards the cross, picks up the same descending scale. But suddenly a vigorous allegro interrupts the sorrow, "The Lion of Judah fought the fight/ And hath prevailed." In Lutheran theology, the moment of deepest tragedy was also the moment of triumph and victory.

This staged performance was sung during Holy Week 2002. We shall see a copy of a copy! We lose nearly a minute of the performance in the penultimate chorus. The star is Mark Padmore as the Evangelist. One critic wrote, "Every word he sang could be heard beautifully articulated, but more than that he managed to invest the part with a kind of wondering sincerity." Padmore is transformed from being an objective observer to an active participant in the drama. Near the end he weeps and we weep with him. As we watch the performance, we too become more than spectators; we are involved in the action and the evangelist speaks for us as a Greek chorus. More than a musical production it is a devotional experience.

Vestry Notes The vestry discussed its responsibility for keeping the premises secure. The decision was made to have the Education Center re-keyed, but not all the doors of the church and hall. The vestry needs to know who has keys to which doors. If you have keys, especially master keys, please contact Vickie Ward.

Vickie Ward, Cynthia Pennington and Sarah Phillips have volunteered to organize the Easter Egg Hunt. It will take place at 10:00 a.m. on Easter morning, March 23 in the "Back-40." We will need fillings for the Easter Eggs. Can you bring candy for the Easter Eggs to the parish office, to arrive no later than Palm Sunday, March 16. Please spread the word to children about the hunt.

The Outreach Committee met on January 30. The vestry wanted the congregation to know that the Outreach Committee made distributions in the first quarter to the following:

Brown Baggers $200 Community Garden $200
Meals on Wheels $300 Vineyard Workers $200
Kid's Street $300

 

DAUGHTERS OF THE KING

Our Vision: Empowered by the Holy Spirit, our vision as Daughters is to know Jesus Christ, to make Him known to others, and become reflections of God's love throughout the world. Our Motto: For His Sake … I am but one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. What I can do, I ought to do. What I ought to do, by the grace of God I will do. Lord, what will you have me do?

What We Like About Being Daughters of the King

It is a privilege to be part of a spiritual group that is concerned for the welfare of those in need, or in giving thanks for blessings for people who are grateful for blessings in their lives. The camaraderie with those who are like-minded is also special. Talking to God and Jesus every day brings us closer to the Lord.
Minerva Haddad

I like being a DoK because of the prayer connection with God and sharing concerns and prayers of family and friends.
Linda Lewis

Being a DoK provides the discipline for me to begin each day in prayer. This joyful opportunity causes me to focus on God and carry that calming presence forward throughout the day.
Alice Fielder

I like being a DoK because it not only allows me a prayer connection with many people for many reasons, but it also causes me to re-think and re-focus my heart and soul in service to God.
Audrey Jaynes

When I first became a Daughter, I thought it would be a good discipline for me and provide a closer walk with Christ. It has proven to be true; however, I have received an unexpected additional blessing of love and trust with the other daughters in our chapter. I love and trust each of them as true sisters.
Jane Hall

I like being a DoK and sharing prayers for parishioners, friends and family and seeing how faithful God is to hear and answer us.
Charlotte Horne

As a DoK, I receive spiritual growth as I pray each day for those who are in need of comfort, guidance and support. It is a privilege to be able to serve the Lord, Our Savior and King, in this way and to feel part of this grace-full community of women.
Jackie Senter

Joining the DoK has enriched my spiritual life in so many ways. I have the opportunity to be a servant and disciple for Christ and I also have, along with my sisters in the St. Hilda's chapter, the opportunity to share meaningful fellowship in truly loving and trusting relationships. It makes me feel good to know that others are entrusting us to join in praying for their particular needs or situation. We Daughters often hear comments that praying daily for others and meeting monthly must be a commitment requiring a lot of time. In answer, we meet monthly at church to work up our prayer lists for the coming month and then we pray independently on our own schedules in our own personal way, so it's a commitment that even women like me who have demanding job responsibilities can work into their schedules. Being a Daughter is another example of how we can become part of the body of Christ's church.
Cynthia Pennington

We often do not know the circumstances of the people on the DoK prayer list. Starting and ending each day in prayer for them causes me to step outside myself and realize, in the stillness of the moment, that we are all members of God's family.
Mary Banks

 

FOCUS ON WHAT WE HAVE IN COMMON

Editor's Comment to: Focus On What We Have In Common
It sometimes happens that two events coincide in such a way that the combined impact is significantly greater than the mere sum of the two. Hugh's article in last month's Grapevine called us to "… focus on what we have in common, not what separates us." These powerful words were even more significant as I reflected on how well they fit with a comment made by a speaker at the December ECW luncheon. This speaker, a chaplain of the Law Enforcement Services of Sonoma County, said that the group almost didn't get formed because the chaplains kept arguing about which religious tenets should be followed. It wasn't until they asked themselves, "What is our God calling us to do," that they were able to make progress.

I know that we Christians are all called to the same task for, no matter which Bible version we use, we can find the text, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." But I didn't know what the Gods of non-Christian religions called their followers to do. Fortunately, the Internet was able to supply the answer (see the table below). The world's major religions represent almost 63% of the world population. What a powerful force for justice, love and peace this group could be if it could just find a way to agree that, however we define God, we are all called to the same purpose.

Religion Followers What Our God Calls Us to Do Source
Christianity 1,900M "Do to others what you would have them do to you." Luke 6:31
Islam 1,100M "Those who act kindly in this world will have kindness." Qur'an, 39.10
Hinduism 781M "This is the sum of all duty: do not do to others what would cause pain if done to you." Mahabharata, 5:1517
Buddhism 324M "Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful." Udana-Varga, 5:18
Sikhism 25M "Be not estranged from another for God dwells in every heart." Sri Guru Granth Sahib
Judaism 14M "What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor, That is the entire Torah; all the rest is commentary." Babylonian Talmud, Shabbat 31a
Bahá'í Faith 6.1M "Blessed are those who prefer others before themselves." Baha'u'llah, Tablets of Baha'u'llah, 71
Confucianism 5.3M "Do not unto others what you would not have them do unto you."Analects, 15:23
Jainism 4.9M "In happiness and suffering, in joy and grief, regard all creatures as you would regard your own self." Lord Mahavir, 24th Tirthankara

As a good friend of mine often says, "Debating our differences instead of focusing on God's call to love one another makes as much sense as the crew of the Titanic arguing over how to rearrange the deck chairs after they hit the iceberg."
-- Mary Banks

HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW YOUR BIBLE?

Here are just a few of the answers people gave:

  • Moses led the Jews to the red sea where they made unleavened bread; bread without any ingredients.
  • The Egyptians were all drowned in the dessert. Afterwards, Moses went up to Mount Cyanide to get the Ten Commandments.
  • The first commandment was when Eve told Adam to eat the apple.
  • Moses died before he ever reached Canada then Joshua led the Hebrews in the battle of Geritol.
  • The greatest miracle in the bible is when Joshua told his son to stand still and he obeyed him.
  • Jesus was born because Mary had an immaculate contraption
  • One of the opossums was St. Matthew who was also a taximan.
  • St. Paul cavorted to Christianity; he preached holy acrimony, which is another name for marriage.
  • Christians have only one spouse. This is called monotony.

 

 


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